One of the most important reasons in the failure is negative emotions, which are brakes that prevent human progress and upgrading, continues in place without progress and but mostly increase the decline, even in a sea of despair and hopelessness that leads to failure in all walks of life.
And negative emotions - as the administrative says psychologist Brian Tracy -:
(FEED Bgmain: 1 - justification. 2 - lower psychological).
In other words, when we confront Bmusaúb life and its problems, or we are exposed to harm others, we resort off to blame them, and the behavior of curriculum justification for error, forget throw any of the blame on ourselves, and the other thing that when we are exposed to this harm and problems of others, we are influenced and reflected on , which leads to a situation brake in the way of progress and upgrading, and even succeed in of these negative emotions, we have to take the responsibility, and the meaning of responsibility is short not to blame others, even if they were wrong right, and control not let to a no room for grief and Igdhaibna, and have control in our hands we rejoice when what we want joy, and mourn when we are sad.